🇵🇹 Portugal · 🇰🇷 South Korea
By Priya Mehta, The Global Office
In Lisbon, the workday politely stops for lunch — a real, sit-down, three-course lunch, sometimes for two hours, and nobody apologizes for it. In Seoul, the workday doesn't stop so much as relocate, often well past 9 p.m., to a barbecue table where your boss is now pouring you a drink you didn't order and can't refuse. Both countries would tell you they eat together because food matters. Only one of them means it as leisure.
| ✅ Do | ❌ Don't |
|---|---|
| Block out a full hour, ideally two, for lunch — it's structural, not indulgent | Eat at your desk unless you want to be visibly marked as an outsider |
| Expect a starter, soup, main, and coffee — pace yourself | Rush a business lunch toward a decision — it's for relationship-building first |
| Say yes to the bread and olives that arrive unordered — it's standard, and usually billed | Assume dinner starts before 8 p.m. — restaurants often aren't full until 9 |
| Let colleagues choose the restaurant — it's a genuine point of pride | Skip the coffee (bica) after the meal — it signals the meal, and often the conversation, isn't over |
| Use lunch to build the relationships that grease actual decisions later | Schedule back-to-back meetings straight through the lunch window |
| ✅ Do | ❌ Don't |
|---|---|
| Attend hoesik (company dinners) when invited, especially in your first months | Pour your own drink — pour for others, especially seniors, with two hands |
| Hold your glass with two hands when a senior colleague pours for you | Start eating or drinking before the most senior person at the table does |
| Pace your drinking — sipping is acceptable; declining outright is harder | Leave a hoesik early without a clear, pre-communicated reason |
| Ask a Korean colleague quietly if you're ever unsure of the etiquette in the moment | Assume hoesik has disappeared just because younger staff resent it — it hasn't, yet |
| Treat lunch as functional and fast — it's a different register than dinner entirely | Expect hoesik to be optional in the way an office happy hour is optional elsewhere |
Portuguese lunch culture isn't a quirk bolted onto the workday — it structures it. Multiple hospitality and lifestyle guides, including LisbonGo and TastePorto, describe almoço as commonly running from noon to 2 p.m., with many workplaces still building in a full hour or two rather than the abbreviated lunch break familiar to American or British employees. Boundless HQ's guide to Portuguese working hours confirms the pattern formally: a standard day running 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. with a one-hour break, or 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. with two hours, meaning the extended lunch is a scheduling choice built into contracts, not a norm people are quietly bending.
The meal itself carries weight. Edenred Portugal's annual Food Barometer and Portuguese national dietary surveys both describe lunch and dinner as typically multi-course — soup, a main, often dessert or coffee — and rarely eaten standing up or on the move. Hofstede Insights scores Portugal at 104 on uncertainty avoidance, among the highest in the world, and the ritualized, unhurried structure of the meal fits that pattern: there's a right way to eat lunch, and skipping steps feels less like efficiency and more like a small transgression. It also means the newly arrived Anglo employee who eats a sandwich at their desk to save time isn't seen as diligent. They're seen as slightly missing the point.
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South Korean food culture at work runs on an entirely different clock, and a much higher-stakes one. Hoesik — company dinners, often centered on Korean barbecue and soju — remain, per the Korea Herald and workplace-culture site C-Korea, a core mechanism for building trust and flattening (temporarily) the hierarchy that structures daily office life. Hofstede Insights puts South Korea's uncertainty avoidance at 85 — high, though notably lower than Portugal's 104 — but the dimension that matters more here is power distance: hoesik is one of the few spaces where junior staff get sanctioned, ritualized proximity to leadership, which is precisely why skipping it reads as more than a scheduling preference.
The etiquette is specific and non-optional: don't pour your own drink, hold your glass with two hands when a senior pours for you, wait for the most senior person to eat or drink first. Generational friction is real and documented — a widely cited Incruit survey found that a majority of workers in their 20s and 30s now say they'd prefer hoesik reformatted as alcohol-free lunches rather than late-night dinners with drinking — but the institution hasn't collapsed. Companies like Samsung have moved to curb the heaviest drinking (no alcohol after 9 p.m., in some internal policies), which is less a retreat from hoesik than an attempt to keep the ritual while reducing the collateral damage.
The irony sitting underneath both cultures is that neither treats the shared meal as optional, even though both would describe it, on the surface, as social rather than professional. Portugal's two-hour lunch looks like leisure but functions as a pressure release valve and relationship incubator inside a highly structured, rule-bound culture. Korea's hoesik looks like a party but functions as an unofficial extension of the performance review — attendance, deference, and drink-pouring etiquette all quietly legible to everyone at the table except the newest hire. Portugal front-loads the ritual into the middle of the workday, protected and predictable. Korea back-loads it into the evening, unpredictable in duration and stakes. A Portuguese transplant to Seoul who tries to treat hoesik like an extended lunch — leisurely, low-stakes, easy to duck out of early — will misjudge it badly. A Korean transplant to Lisbon who eats efficiently at their desk to save time for evening obligations will be read, just as badly, as someone who isn't really part of the team.
Blind — An employee posting about Samsung's internal culture described after-work hoesik dinners as functionally mandatory, noting that saying no repeatedly was understood by managers as a quiet signal of disengagement, even though no policy technically required attendance.
Quora — A Korean American recounting their first hoesik described the shock of watching everyone at the table fill a beer glass with soju and down it in one motion, calling it unlike any "team dinner" concept they'd encountered in the US.
Quora — Someone answering a question about typical Portuguese lunches noted that visiting colleagues from the UK were startled to learn that a "quick lunch" locally still meant soup, a hot main course, and coffee — closer to a Sunday roast than a sandwich.
Expat in Portugal (community blog) — A newcomer working from a Lisbon coworking space observed that the Anglo expats kept eating sandwiches at their desks while the Portuguese staff left, as a group, for a full two hours — and that after a few weeks of watching this, staying behind started to feel like the odd choice.
Expat Guide Korea — A foreign employee wrote that their biggest early misstep at hoesik wasn't a drinking rule but a timing one: leaving before the senior manager signaled the night was over, which colleagues gently but clearly flagged as bad form the next day.
If you're moving to Portugal, block your calendar for lunch like it's a real meeting, because to everyone else at the table, it is one. If you're moving to South Korea, treat your first few hoesik invitations as mandatory until a Korean colleague explicitly tells you otherwise — the generational pushback against the ritual is real, but it hasn't rewritten the rules for the newest person in the room yet. Both cultures are using food to do work that calendars and org charts can't: Portugal to protect a rhythm, Korea to manage a hierarchy. Figure out which one you're eating inside of before you decide the meal doesn't matter.
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Priya Mehta
Staff writer covering financial markets and corporate strategy. Has strong opinions about spreadsheets.